Rene Girard and the mimetic desire
When reading Mark Earls’ latest book Herd a couple of months ago I couldn’t stop thinking of the work of the anthropological philosopher Rene Girard.
Indeed, the main point Mark Earls is making in his book is that we (marketing, change management, politics…) are misunderstanding mass behaviour because we focus too much on individuals and think they are making their decisions on their own. However, human beings are herd animals, “we do what we do because of other people”.
So when I read that, it remained me of Rene Girard’s research and his theory of mimetic desire. By analysing both classic novels (Mensonges romantiques et verite Romanesque) and religion (Violence and the sacred) he reveals the ‘true’ mechanic of human desire as well as answers for the origins of violence.
“We borrow our desires from others. Far from being autonomous, our desire for a certain object is always provoked by the desire of another person — the model — for this same object. This means that the relationship between the subject and the object is not direct: there is always a triangular relationship of subject, model, and object.”
Have a look at the ‘triangle of desire’ diagram below (sorry for the poor quality)

But the most interesting part of his theory is the fact that mimetic desire is actually the starting point of violence.
“Suddenly, the model is transformed into obstacle and combines two contradictory terms: he is at the same time the one who is adored (since he shows to the subject what is desirable) and the one who is hated (since, as rival, he prohibits the possession of it).”
This theory has been applied to marketing by Marie-Claude Sicard in her book Les resorts caches du desir. She explains through the mimetic desire theory why brands are facing problems nowadays, as well as why the tools we use in marketing such as benchmarks are paradoxical and not efficient and how people are unconsciously using mimetic desire when consuming.
For instance people don’t buy a product because of the quality, the price… they buy it because they saw someone else they thought was cool… and the closest the model, the strongest the desire. The desire isn’t a line, it’s a triangle.
However, mimetic desire isn’t just a ‘consumer’ thing, brands are also copying each other, just have a look at the Ralph Lauren and Tommy Hilfiger below…
This is only the first part of the theory, the second part being the conflict. The crisis brands are facing at the moment is mainly due to the fact they spend too much time trying to copy each other rather than actually producing real innovations, they therefore enter the circle of conflict and lose the trust people had in them…
















Thanks for this very insightful and interesting post on desire and marketing!
very interesting, maybe you can look at it from an evolutionary perspective too. the object of desire doesn’t have an intrinsic quality to it but it is the individual who chooses to wear it is the one giving it the ‘desireable quality’ it is almost a form of recommendation just not verbal. and the person wearing it is probably the one that you really aspire to be like. they made a choice that you like. i think herd humans have an evolutionary radar for what is going to make them succeed (getting the girl running from the lion etc) and when they see other herd humans who ‘got it’ they just follow because they want to succeed themselves. i think there is a prallel discussion also around taste, Bourdieu basically said that taste is a means of class classification, i know this is cool and if you know that this is cool too then you must be in the know, unlike all those who are not in the know which somehow means that our herd is better than theirs. if you add Bourdiue’s thinking to this you will end up with a herd with lots of little triangles above versus all the other people who choose not to wear Prada anymore … the other herd. Its herds versus herds in the end …
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